Selfish.

I read this on my friend Tyrone's away message. Sometimes it's worth it to K.I.S.S. (keep it simple, sister). When we spend too much time whining, moaning, complaining and wondering why certain people are so nasty, so mean, give us the non-verbal FU. They're just selfish. And you'd do better not to have them in your life. Read on.

Question: Why are people nice when they want or need something from you and afterward they are jerks?

Answer: Because it is all about them and no one else. This is called 'selfish'. They will do anything to get what they want, as long as it is not hurting them. If you stop giving to them, then they will stop doing that, but then they will likely not come around much anymore. These people are not friends and it is better if they do not come around. Unfortunately this happens to all people at some point in their lives. And there are so awful many of that type of people in the world today. They always want something for nothing. The only way to stop it is to stop giving them what they want.